Friend setup

Who are you reflecting on?

Just two quick things, then the reflection begins. No account needed yet.

Friend's name or nickname

What kind of relationship is this?

Helps us interpret your reflection in context.

What zone do you currently believe this friendship is in?

Optional — trust your instinct. Short descriptors are just to orient you.

Before you begin

Answer based on the current reality of this friendship, not nostalgia, potential, history, emotional attachment, or how much you wish the friendship were closer.

For the most accurate result, answer based on real examples from the friendship, not only hope, history, or assumption.